Doug 5.0 **

OEM Doug

A couple of old friends have made some poignant comments over my last post, and it's time to turn the page on Doug 4.3. I think this event is major enough to warrant it (thanks, Sherri). Also, I don't care what you think. It's my blog.

This post is really premature, but I figured I should get it all in writing before life throws another curve-ball. Or knuckle-ball. Or fast-ball. TLDR: Not dead yet.

Steve called me the other day, and after a long chat asked what I was optimistic about - and I didn't have a ready answer for him. But after a couple of minutes I thought that I am not exactly optimistic, but I am mostly grateful.

• I'm grateful for our family. Everyone is doing well. Everyone is healthy. Everyone is smart. Everyone is kind. Most of the time, my family understands my humour.
• I'm grateful for being surrounded by friends. Many, many we've had for thirty, forty or fifty years. And these aren't just people we know - these are people we still see regularly. Most of the time, these people do not understand my humour. Or me. They tolerate me because of Laura.
• I'm grateful that I got an extra nineteen years. My heart bypass was in 2006, and my stroke was in 2009. Both could have been extinction events. It's been all me-me-me for almost twenty years.
• I'm grateful that Laura and I took the time to tackle our bucket list early. We've travelled a lot, seen a lot, and done a lot. I've had a good ride. So long and thanks for all the fish.
• But mostly I'm grateful that Laura, the love of my life, will be OK. She's surrounded by a world of people that will help and support her. All of you know it was always her, and I was just along for the ride.

* Special shout out to my brother, Don, who's been there through this whole roller coaster.

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Doug 1.0 - OEM Doug in 1960

Doug 2.0 - Heart Bypass Surgery in 2006

Doug 3.0 - Stroke in 2009

Doug 4.0 - Cancer in 2023

Doug 4.1 - Chemo

Doug 4.2 - Radical Cysectomy

Doug 4.3 - Immunotherapy

Doug 5.0 - Today